YUP :k:
supporting your parents financially is another thing and getting allowance from them after handing them over who whole salary is another.
I think till the guy is not married it’s ok to give his full pay check to his parents but after that he has the responsibility to provide for his wife & children. People here completely murder the rights of wife & children and suggest that it’s the parents only who matters. Both parents & wife + children have their own rights and no one’s rights should be compromised at the cost of other. A son has a duty assigned by Allah to take care of his parents and this same son when gets married & becomes a husband and a father has a duty assigned by same ALLAH to provide for them too. Too much of anything is bad , if the man is doing too much for his parents and ignoring his wife & children then problems would arise OR if the man is doing to much for his wife & children and ignoring his parents then again problems would arise.
One scenario I would add here which I think most of you may not have encountered. Sometimes when a guy is giving his full pay check to his parents , the parents may be spending his income to support other siblings and their families , while the family of the guy who is earning the money suffers. This is a very common scenario in Pakistan , ek bachay ki kamai sey doosray kay biwi bacho ko palna. This is extreme injustice. I think such guys should not marry and should support their parents and siblings for the rest of their lives …why destroy someone’s life when you can not even fulfil the very basic rights ?