That makes no sense and also a very extreme as well as rare example. So, you’re implying that even though she is his wife…she has no right to tell him or give any input as to where the household money is going? That means lahori - in plain and simple words - that you’re not interested in marriage as a partnership. You just need an accessory in a wife…someone to nod her head in agreement with everything you say.
Also, you’re generalizing. You’re saying any woman who wants any sort of control over her marital affairs is essentially demanding shoes, gucci bags, etc. I would want complete control or at least input in my family’s finances…and it has nothing to do with frivolous things like bags or shoes. You shouldnt trivialize our opinions that way…it looks primitive.