Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

[SaeedinPakistan]

Re: Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

@Sehrysh

It’s not being upset, rather we’re challenging your idea that living in Pakistan is the solution to the problems you’ve described.

*Jahan tak *you talk about apna-pan, sure living in Pakistan you will be part of a community of Urdu/Punjabi/Sindhi/Seraiki/Pashto speakers who wear shalwar kameez and are in majority Muslim.

But the temptations you’re trying to save your children from - losing their language, wearing jeans and T or other revealing clothes, dating, drinking, losing their religion, etc. - the possibility to stray exists in Pakistan as well as here.

College/University mein larki/larka West mein bhi ishq laraatein hai aur Pakistani mein bhi. Clubs, dancing, drinking - it happens everywhere. So don’t be oblivious to the tempations, deal with it.

Preserving one’s faith and way of living is a choice. I’ve made it living here and you and your children will have to make it there.

Really? Are you talking about the Pakistan I live in. This place is pretty repressive and you don’t get access to those all those vices unless you’re really loaded. Losing religion is an exception, you lose that pretty easy with all the hopelessness and chaos over here.