Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

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Re: Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

@homesick

I will not be comparing everything in the U.S** if I were to move there. I know for sure I would have a bigger house instead of the tiny apartment in NY,** and i would own, wont’ have to worry about rent. I know some people in Pakistan who have small businesses and doing ok, but their lifestyles are those of millionaires here. I know there are challenges like electricity, crime etc. but are we to live here permanently? Are my generations to grow here like the Irish and Italian? Don’t these thoughts worry you? Anyway, all i can say that the time I spent in Pakistan is the only time I have been carefree and at home. I can live here and have the A.C and the heat, and the health insurance and the car, but no fulfillment, no purpose, no sense of apna pun. Have you attended high school here? I have..and if you are not dating and becoming sexual, you feel like you are abnormal..don’t want it for my daughter. I don’t think you would feel abnormal or different if you are not dating or attending prom. As for Islamic schools, I know someone who works there, it usually the kids who failed in public school that they are sent to Islamic school-not all- but many are like this and they do date and do everything you will find in public school. So these reasons are petty. You live only once. Allah will ask us if we had no other choice but to live in an 99% kafir country. But thank you for your advice. Everyone has their opinion and I am open to everyone’s advice/opinions etc.

You could get a large house in many parts of the US for the price of a small apartment in NY..