Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

[Nina85]

Re: Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan

@Monk

Thing is I doubt allah will punish you for living in non-Muslim country,
your kid worry is very genuine, and being a guy I do understand where you coming from.

Dude here is the thing, you need to able to love your kids NO MATTER what!!
See you teach them islam real good, that is your job. You will be questioned about it!!

Now I My self have seen that practical reason of not fooling around before marriage. And I appreciate this rule very much.
**I will teach my children islam, plus a good argument why they should keep to them selves.
Now pak or US they could make mistakes. You should be able to deal with it, rather then having a heart attack.
And after knowing it all, if kid chose to adopt a sinful life style then, you have to know you go to your grave and kid need to answer
her/him self for what he/she chose.
Nothing more to that.
**But you better be able to love them still!!! How could you not

I learn this principle from a guppen, it gave me so much peace. I wont tell her name. No one expect her to say some thing deep.. ever
haha

Very true. Dont do the whole, “oh I dont want them to become too westernized”; they will be to some extent if you live in the West, it’s normal. That does not mean that they will not be “good Muslims”. And moving to Pakistan also does not garantee they will be “good muslims”. Your job is to raise them to be good/considerate people and to understand and respect their religion. This can happen anywhere, in any country. What your children choose to do with what you have taught them is their own decision. But if you feel like you would be happier in Pakistan, then go for it. Just remember the grass always seems greener on the other side.