Re: Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan
kiddo, the challenge is that the older you get the tougher it is to uproot and move and restart life, at least socially.
I know its a joke, but I am explaining it for others who may not understand the implications.
My folks moved back to UK permanently a few years ago. I think it was minimum 5 years to a decade later than it should have been. my bro is thee, they have their home which has been there since we were kids, uncle is next door, aunt is 2 miles away, other relatives and friends in the area, but its still a change and they did leave behind friends and family they had been spending much of their time with for 2 decades, and then readjust to UK, even though they visited every year or two, it can be tough.
It would be even tougher if they moved here with me, because they really dont know anyone here, I know of ppl on GS and in my city who faced it and you have to plan for that loneliness even if you are living with your kids and grandkids, u are not nearby friends, or are not close to them physically.
god bless skype, since they have started using it, they are happier being in touch with everyone everywhere.