Saddle up your high horses, Here comes Trouble

[Enigmatic]

Re: Saddle up your high horses, Here comes Trouble

@mirage

Honestly Dem I knew all this was coming for you since you dared. Now, many holy people here would be having gf/bf themselves and so would their friends, but see you need to change your company because you dared to talk about it. All is well as far as its under the hood :k:

she is absolutely right on her part. It’s happening. I know. All am saying is that where people dare talk openly about it, it would seem to be happening in every household but in conservative places where even such talk is taboo (yes there are ALOT of people in Pak like this) it would seem to be a very very unlikely ‘haw-haye’ thing. So yes the kind of people we interact with does matter.

When I was in A levels and at one of the best schools in Lahore, there was alot more random talk about such scapegoat incidents. But when I went to a Govt college, people were so hush-hush about a lot of stuff ! So I have been on both sides and I know what Demi is talking aout and also what others are.
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**The real problem for me is that acceptance and knowing that everybody is doing it can create havoc if one starts becoming immune to it until it becomes a complete norm!

***And you know it is becoming a norm when people start thinking you are an alien for you didnt have a relationship before getting married and agreed to marry a person you barely know just because your parents wished so.