Re: Saddle up your high horses, Here comes Trouble
I had to stop here and respond because I believe I fit to cite my honest opinion here per personal experience. I have this daily basis interaction with girls in college and man have they corrupted!!! Its shameful for us to acknowledge, but most of them come to college only so that they can go with the “partners” they have arranged meetings with. A few of the girls have been reported to leave sitting in some unknown car by 8:30 and arriving back at 3:30. And this particular girl is a sophomore. Now obviously a saint would believe she and her whoever were playing a game of chess all that time. We struck that girl off. But such cases keep arising on almost every alternate day basis. There are girls who elope, who encourages them to that extent and whats the guarantee they would have withheld the advances of the one for whom they would elope even before getting married. And im not going to narrate the rest of 101 cases because, it will be futile.
I loved the part where you said that those who are not exposed is because they hide it better. People can choose to live in denial if they want to, may suit themselves.
Its not something we should be proud of BUT i think we should have ghairat enough to acknowledge and take appropriate action so that it can be eliminated BECAUSE Zina is a Zina after all, whatever excuses you may give for it, its a test of your nafs and only the parhezgar will pass the test.