We use phrases and sayings 9having good wishes) for other party and I don’t say people think that much while uttering these words, but origin of phrases do have a history and clues to psyche of a society. We know how important it has been for a lady to be suhaagan in our society. Even, God forbid, she loses her husband, the attitude of society treat her like some criminal.
The society must give their daughters / sisters blessing for happily married life, but it should not promote fears for widowed life.