Sad, angry and confuse

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Re: Sad, angry and confuse

@farimasait

Ok. I think I’m well placed to answer this question.

It’s pretty obvious he converted for love of you.instead of being appreciative and grateful and showing him how lovely life can be as a muslim with a muslim wife..you nag at him about eating at chinese restaurants, eating half-moon cakes and the like…

If you’re soo concerned about the lard, you should be going out and finding moon cakes without lard and bringing them home to him..that would work better than forbidding something..

Prob is he only want the moon cake with the eggs yolk in it. We already try the Vegetarian chinese restaurant (they dont have it because as a vegetarian they dont eat eggs) we went to chinese muslim restaurant - they sell it but the taste is not as good as the one from malaysia the one with the lard on top of it.

I’m so happy when travelers (in this case my MIL) can no longer bring foods into US. This save me from nagging him or be upset.

I dont want him to eat at chinese restaurant because the foods mixed with lard .. the oil that they used to fried a prawns is the same oil that they fried pork meat. i,e for a soup - they will used chicken or pork broth to make the soup more delicious. as for wantan skin we use butter but in the chinese restaurant they use lard. If we not careful we will eat haram foods everyday.