Ain…Its one thing to raise your child a certain way. You have the right and responsibility to mold him according to Islam. You don’t have those same rights over other human beings. He is an adult with a mind of his own…he is not a child and you cannot mold him any way you want. Has it worked for the past 10 years? No, it has not. And it will not. It doesn’t work the same way with an adult Ain as it does with a child.
This!
You have to show him a better way of life…some love.