Re: Sad, angry and confuse
Ok. I think I’m well placed to answer this question. 
The answer is I would stay with them. You knew he was Chinese. Since you’re from Malaysia (I assume), you knew his traditions etc.
It’s pretty obvious he converted for love of you.instead of being appreciative and grateful and showing him how lovely life can be as a muslim with a muslim wife..you nag at him about eating at chinese restaurants, eating half-moon cakes and the like…
If you’re soo concerned about the lard, you should be going out and finding moon cakes without lard and bringing them home to him..that would work better than forbidding something.
You surely cannot have expected him to transform himself overnight.
If by BF agreed to convert. I’d walk on hot coals for him.. 
You don’t know how good you have it..
P.S I should make sure he doesn’t see this thread 