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March 21, 2012, 7:34pm
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Re: Sad, angry and confuse
I don’t think she forced him, can’t you see since 1998, he converted.. she gave him time! she gave him break, but as you say she is the closest person to him, ofcourse she knows her husband better than us all, and what I am getting is, this Man is taking NO interest in even Learning Islam. You don’t force someone to learn about Islam, when you know there is this Good human in someone and the person wills to learn it properly, but when it comes to a Husband, someone you HAVE to live your entire life with and it can effect the children then there IS a time when you need to make your spouse understand what should he do.
I would have taken her steps as wrong if she were newly married or were married for 2 or 3 years, but she says, its 10 years now, and STILL he shows no interest!! you just can’t compromise on Religion when you know your kid is now getting older, its his age to learn from his parents, now, if the parents are in such a situation of confusion.. regrading religion, I am afraid, the kid will grow up with such a confused personality! she can’t even manage to live her life alone and bring him up without a father.. he has to know, who is father is and where his father is! I think, 10 years are too much and its her good decision to ask him whether he is taking this issue seriously or not, or else, it better for her to leave him.
thank you thank you Queen - you understand me very well. i need to read your post for another 20 times! i want to borrow some of your points when dealing with my husband tonight. I wish i can buy you a flower!
i appreciate all the feedback. really appriciate - may Allah bless you all.