Sad, angry and confuse

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Re: Sad, angry and confuse

@LucyMay

Ok sista, I am going to spell it out the way i see it, so sorry if it hurts.
Give him a frickin break!! He has changed his religion, food and drink habits and god knows what for you. What have you done for him other than throwing tantrums over silly reasons like not calling you every day when he was abroad?

As others said he is only Muslim on name. He stop drinking before even know me. He not change his food 100% because he still eat non halal foods outside the house.

Taking the phonbe line off the hook, and checking into a hotel in a fit of anger shows a lack of maturity. No wonder he is disillusioned! Perhaps if YOU show some understanding and empathy, he will be more likely to understand your feelings.

I do that because I dont want to have fight over the phone. I want him to know how will he feel when he can’t talk to his son. I stay in the hotel because I still in anger - which is not good. I dont want to go home and see his face and withour knowing I lash out infront of our son. I want cooling time so I can think what is my next step. I know my weakness that is why I stay away from him.