Re: Rules your children follow
Peace Sweetmoi
For the adab of parents and public … I don’t see the two positions to be mutually exclusive … the reward punishment is a scenario during a heated moment … the reinforcement of love is general as a learning point not during disciplining. It is more important to get them to listen when they are angry and want to fight - so it is useful to use their momentary aggression as a tool against them … rather than losing ones temper or telling them off … you can punish them by rewarding the other party.