I was pretty adamant with my family members that I do not want the crying send off, we were about to start a new life and I wanted to do that with smiles and duaas. And yeah I’ve seen women add fuel to the fire as well, and also ppl who are at the wedding that don’t know the bride well waiting in line to hug her and cry (weird) anyhow we had my rukhsati from home, the family was a bit teary eyed but everything was personal just us family members. And the bright side is that in my wedding video, no crying just smiles… alhamdulillah