cuz i am very sensitive :(…when the bride and groom got up from stage to leave her dadu came to my mom and said “is ka khayal rakhna…” and those words just made me cry so much. The whole thing about giving away your daughters in marriage to a new family is not easy and you dont know whats in store for her and you. So its a tricky situation :(. I remember i cried so much that even her sister and brothers who were crying stopped and her sister started laughing that why are you crying lol…but i was miserable 
I know i am going to faint on my ruksati for sure!!!