Re: rude nands
From what I have seen and if I put myself in that situation, guys would rather be out of this bs family politics if you know what I mean.
But oops I forgot, you are not a man so have fun making a mountain of a molehill! 
I don’t even get what is the big problem there since the OP and others in the thread obviously live separately and husbands can’t really be jerks to their wives here even if it because they are afraid of what the law would do to them.