Fbi786
March 18, 2014, 11:52pm
33
Re: Rude Cousin
you mentioned your age, so you act your age and be the mature one.. so find out what the mature ppl do and ignore the immature ones. simple. why go through so much trouble.
its not even a big issue. Just tell her straight up that her fam sent the request and she should get over her loss.
So this particular cousin( age 22) has always been the rude type, but ever since my parents and I rejected her brother’s rishta she’s gotten even worse and more frequent. Btw, she doesn’t know that I know that her family sent my family the rishta.
Lately in the past couple of months since we rejected their rishta she has been so rude. Once I was wearing a jacket from brand X and she commented to her brother that brand X is for people who cannot afford brand Y in front of me, and after that they both started laughing, which is funny because she used to ask us for desi clothes for parties and stuff, if she’s so rich why cant she go out and buy them. Another time two of my younger cousins said that I was the prettiest of all of the older cousins and that they want to look like me when they get older. My sister and other younger cousins were like yeah Pinkcess is pretty, whereas this cousin sad I’m not and what is so pretty about me. And I used to be very fat a couple of years ago and then I got very thin and now I’m normal, and she ALWAYS comments on how I used to be anorexic and how ugly I looked. I also have light skin and anemia so veins show on my face in places like my chin and under eye when I’m not wearing makeup, and she always makes it a point to comment on that. I just find it so rude because she has acne, facial hair, coarse hair, childish looking body, etc yet I never make fun of her. She even is rude to my younger sis, but to a lesser extent. Also once her father was extremely sick and their family asked us to bring zam zam water that we had from Hajj from SIX years ago so he could drink it( all we had), and when we brought it she commented that it wasn’t enough and that “we’re sooo generous” in front of us. There’s just so much more rude stuff she does but I don’t wanna annoy you guys.
Also when we are around cousins that are our age (17-25), she always acts so nice to me and my sis and prefers talking to us instead of the other girls, even when we are in groups. I’m just so tired of this and I even have told my mom but she doesn’t think that this is that big of a deal. All the aunties and adults love this girl, and brush off her bad qualities. How should I deal with her???