Re: Room issue.
Everybody has a different way of expressing themselves…you shouldn’t take every little comment to heart. If we did the same then we would be offended by your comment:
How come we all think from limited views and your view is perfectly correct and very open? Are you above being wrong? Could it be that we all are seeing something that you are yet unable to see? You want people to show you respect but you don’t want to be measured by the same standard.
khawateen asked a very valid question…what does your mom say about all of this? Does she agree with your opinion? What is her view?
You’ve answered your own question here…your jethani is a relative. Her bad behaviour will be tolerated, yours’ won’t. Accept that. It will be easier to move on. If you continue to compare your treatment to hers’ you will fall deeper into depression.
Good for you for seeking help.
Unfortunately being led to the well alone does not remedy a horse’s thirst. The horse must drink the water from the well in order to benefit.