Omggggg enough with the sipppppp lol. Hahaha.
Muzna.. im laughin so hard here. Haha. 
Mere haath laptop nahi laga…verna mein bhi madam ko khoob suna thi.
OP… you have learned nothingin the past 5-6 (or however many yrs) you have known your inlaws. Al those.meetings,.down the drain.
The purpose was to meet and connect dots about personalities so you would.know exactly HOW to deal with diff ppl …but You are just as lost as a newly married dulhan in an arranged marriage setting.
Really… your posts are the PRIME reasons WHY elders are usually against free mingling of “spouses” before ruksathi. Patha nahi ruksathi ka time aye bhi na, baath pehlay khatam hojaye. That kinda thing.
Cuz really… from all the threads you have made so far… the issues are petty and immature and show zilch understanding of your inlaws.
Know why?
Cuz it is quite simple: it us IMPOSSIBLE to know someone until you have lived with em. There just is NO way you can guage whoyour fil, mil, even husband is just by visitng.
There is a reason WHY ppl like muzna, khatti are sayin what they are. Women that have been married for donkey yrs.
Take heed.
And seriously, CTFD.
What does your mom say about all of this?
Cuz my mom would have slapped me into reality 2 weeks ago!
