Re: Room issue.
Sometimes there is wisdom in those “old backward ways” as you put it. And for the record, I also had a “love marriage”, born and raised in the U.S., raised by a single working mom, met and dated my husband in college and am almost at my 17th wedding anniversary so you’re barking up the wrong tree pal. Don’t really confirm to your idea of a paindu now do I?! 
And given your past threads about 1) not being taken to Dubai for shopping like your sil 2) not wanting to leave your parents house at all and being “told what to do” 3) where to stay when husband is out of town (where you CLEARLY said you’re already living with him lol, so which is it?!). 4) resentment for having to give up your career…you seem to have a pretty consistent track record…if you can’t even handle the “pre marriage” phase with these people when you’re ahem not even living with them, how sure are you that you’ll be able to handle the real thing lol.
Maaaardren sonch ftw!!!