Room issue.

[Muzna]

Re: Room issue.

@newbee13

I will look it up. How can I let my husband deal with his dad? He won’t speak up. In his household everyone is scared of his dad. Even the eldest brother.
Yesterday on aftari my fil made a smoothy. I don’t like milk or bananas..so I refused to drink and told him I like chocolate milk only.he said this is chocolate.. I said it’s not.. He got angry all of a sudden and said do you think I’m lying to you? Don’t argue with me. And after that the rest of the dinner I didn’t talk. I ate a bit and went for namaz. Later my mil told me if I minded.. I told her no but he gets angry too much and I’m worried about my married life.. If he’ll put restrictions. She said just tell me whenever you wanna go I’ll handle him.

But ladies.. I don’t want to be seeking permission all the time? It would be so difficult for me asking if I can go here and there. We’re married let us make our decisions.

what harm would it have done if you had politely accepted the drink and taken a few sips?
and why so argumentative? if you already know that even his own eldest son does not argue with him, shouldn’t that be a clue to you about how to behave to keep the peace?

I’m actually surprised that they haven’t expressed reservations about you moving in…