Romance

I have a question…in serious relationships like engaged couples or even married ppl i beleive guys always intitate romance…do girls do tht as well???and if they do in wot way do they do it??? :confused:

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Do tell..??

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ALWAYS? that's pretty sad if it's always the guy that has to "initiate romance" with his very own wife......in my opinion.

To answer your question...yes some girls do "initiate romance"...i suppose it depends on where and how you were raised. How they initiate it varies from person to person.

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Romance is whatever it means to you - so you initiate it in your own way.

Sometimes staying home and watching a movie alone is good for a couple.
I think it really depends on the couple.

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Sum blokes find it hard to be romantic just as some women do. No1s the same. I mean one of my best friends finds it very hard to b romantic with her other half and her hubs isnt the romantic type either.
I married some1 almost OTT romantic which i actually think is really sweet even tho others wud find it sickly. Im a soppy hopeless romantic myself so i think we bring out the best in each other.:jano:

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Yes, well I will tell you that it is way more exciting if the girl intiates the romance.

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^what kind of romance.....?

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Hugs and kisses? the rest should stay in the bedroom:blush:

The prophet endorsed foreplay

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if a girl loves a guy, im sure she would be romantic too.....although I think some guys are better at it.

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^^

This is a universal phenomenon: Men everywhere complain that women never initiate anything. I am sure its even worse among the desi women. See what I mean?

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Lets not turn it into a religious debate by involving the Prophet. He also commanded that muslims should behave like muslims, how many adhere to that path? But when it comes to foreplay then oooooohhhhhh Prophet said its OK… kinda funny, don’t you think?

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The kind you are too young for :slight_smile:

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you cant generalise all women...everyone is different. we dont know about other couples and who initiates what....cuz that should be kept between the two of them. so who knows....maybe alot of women do initiate with their husbands....its just that you dont know....cuz they like to keep that just between themselves cuz no1 else has a right to know.

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you dont even know how old i am or anything about me or my life and as far as romance is concerned....that info will stay just between me and my husband...

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Yeah, well some girls do not know how to intiate romance, most likely it would by shyness but that should go away eventually. I am sorry but I am a die hard romantic.:smiley:

Yes, indeed but you know just for the mention.:hoonh:

And you know what? You are 100% correct! It is good that they do not bring it to public as that is quite out of bounds!

I will admit that I have always been shy though starting it all up for some reason.:frowning:

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I'll have no problem initiating.

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There's nothing wrong with woman initiating romance IF they are married....I actually think, it's cute!

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Yes, well that should be a given but if you really want to make your man happy then intiate romance. cough*I hope my fiance reads this thread!*cough

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:rotfl:…awwwwwwwww thas sooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeee

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cant imagine gals being so shy that they wont initiate romance with their own
hubs!