Re: Rituals (rasumat)
LOL my devars also did a modified version of sitting on my lap. They just asked for money. And i strung them around for like an hour before i gave them anything :D But in our case the rasam happened months after i was married and when we finally went to Pak (we got married in the US). I guess if i was the new bride i would be totally quite and just let them have what they asked for. This way it was fun for all of us, actually the whole family gathered around us and it was quite fun.