Re: rishtas for desi girls born and raised abroad
Aha! So u take 3 examples and think it is a good representation of our society? If we are going to act this way then how about me judging your society where guys in their upper 60’s are going for younger women?
I don’t know what exclusive section of Pakistan you are family with but all that you are saying doesn’t apply to the majority of the society. People have become health cautious, they work out at gyms, go to clubs, etc. And lets not even get me started on “loneliness”. Pakistanis are not lonely! The society you live in is lonely even after screwing 101 people, they are lonely in the end because such are their life choices. You can’t have your cake and eat it too! Making a family requires changes, adjustments and sacrifices on both sides…however many at western society are too busy being ambitious and don’t value relationships at the right time.
AND unlike west where parents meet each other over weekends and probably see their kids only once in the morning…Pakistanis spend relevant amount of time not only taking care of their kids but also interacting with them. So maybe your cousins either are meeting the exceptions or there is a great deal of distortion in your communication system.
P.s what good has the salads done for you guys? Pls talk stats with me. If your society is eating healthy yet ranking highest on obesity charts then maybe we are better off from such healthy habits.
Actions lead to results so if they are such happy loving caring families then why are we the crime capital of the world, ripping each other apart blowing each others place of worship, 90 percent women reporting abuse, You go to marathons you see tens of thousands of girls running, never heard of a chick jogging in Peshawar, never saw toned Pakistani Chick, There are many fat people here but there are many attractive people here also with ripped and toned bodies.