rishtas for desi girls born and raised abroad

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Re: rishtas for desi girls born and raised abroad

@Mamzie

1. Refute my claim that obesity is way high in foreign countries esp America. Don’t tell me what you or other people feel or think! Health and human rights are not entirely related so one argument at a time.

2. Rishtas are not the biggest priority? Hah. Great. Awesome. I am all for women or men’s right to remain single, after all marriage is highly recommended but not a must. But who are we kidding here? Most human being long for companionship and being Muslims marriage is the way for it. No matter how successful, popular, wealthy you may be…desi or not, everyone at some point eventually want to settle down.

i think some of you here at this forum really need to visit back and see that things here are not same as you probably left them here…alarming age differences? I don’t think they are as common as before and even if they are what about in west people doing the same? How is that counted as symbol of real love, liberation but when same happens here you guys are quick at pointing it out to be against human rights.

Three very recent marriages in a very small community, guys are in upper sixties and married girls in 30’s imported from Pakistan, there are many more activities that girls do here, they belong to sports teams go camping, bicycling, skiing, jogging, get together and stuff, they have financially rewarding careers and have many other goals, they won’t get married for sake of getting married they will wait until they find someone they can relate to, most married Pakistani women are lonely also, my younger niece and nephews shared with me that whenever they go for sleep overs they hardly saw parents of their friends talk to each other, that is lonely. Healthy is beautiful, skinny girls marry fit guys, all my family is very fit and all the girls they approached were fit also. I have seen many pictures from a wedding and pollution and polluted foods will make you unattractive never saw a salad on a Pakistani chicks plate, you don’t become beautiful not eating fruits and veggies.