rishtas for desi girls born and raised abroad

[Mamzie]

Re: rishtas for desi girls born and raised abroad

@Eliminator

No one with a straight face can say that people in general in a third world country will be healthier than a developed country, as for health stats Pakistan still has a fairly low life expectancy and fairly unhealthy population, I personally know many people in our community that married girls with alarming age difference and o way in hell they would be able to court these kind of girls here,I have not seen any stats that show Pakistan progressing on human rights. Girls here are financially, socially. physically independent and Rishtas are not the biggest priority, loving relationship is amazing but single life is better than abusive and loveless union. Don’t get me wrong I think Pakistani girls are amazing but the misogynistic and feudal culture exploits the girls.

1. Refute my claim that obesity is way high in foreign countries esp America. Don’t tell me what you or other people feel or think! Health and human rights are not entirely related so one argument at a time.

2. Rishtas are not the biggest priority? Hah. Great. Awesome. I am all for women or men’s right to remain single, after all marriage is highly recommended but not a must. But who are we kidding here? Most human being long for companionship and being Muslims marriage is the way for it. No matter how successful, popular, wealthy you may be…desi or not, everyone at some point eventually want to settle down.

i think some of you here at this forum really need to visit back and see that things here are not same as you probably left them here…alarming age differences? I don’t think they are as common as before and even if they are what about in west people doing the same? How is that counted as symbol of real love, liberation but when same happens here you guys are quick at pointing it out to be against human rights.