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?? explain, pls.
meaning he might be interested in someone who has finished med school, law school, grad school, or whatever.
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soconfused i hope this gives you some comfort. i proposed and got engaged to my wife even before she started going to med school. i got married to her while she is med school. and cherry on the top i live abroad, life too is beautiful. lol.
haha that does make me feel better! So there ARE boys that are okay with having their wives go to medical school and essentially be students
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u worry unneccesarily waise. U just need to believe that Allah has a plan for all of us. Certain things need to be left to Him instead of going nuts worrying.
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u worry unneccesarily waise. U just need to believe that Allah has a plan for all of us. Certain things need to be left to Him instead of going nuts worrying.
lol
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haha that does make me feel better! So there ARE boys that are okay with having their wives go to medical school and essentially be students
All the best! :)
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they have to be crazy. if the boy's 28 and they want someone that's like...young, there's no way in hell she'd be done with all professional schoolwork.
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at this point, im just gonna wait and see what happens but on the topic of rishta logistics, is it normal for families to not call to say thanks for dinner? I know it's not a dawat, but I'm used to like...calling to thank people for dinner or inviting us over. Does this not happen at a rishta situation?
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Some people are unaware of certain social graces
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If a guys side does not want to proceed further, they keep the interaction minimum, most of the time completely disappearing from the scene. This saves their faces from saying a direct No and also does not close the door completely and they can come back later if they don't find a better rishta somewhere else, even if its after a few months/ years.
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hehe ashy...solay anay baat ki he apne, mashallah bari aqalmand hen aap
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hehe ashy...solay anay baat ki he apne, mashallah bari aqalmand hen aap
Adaab, nawazish.... Bus jeee... zindagi ne bohot kuch sikhaya hai....
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okay so now i feel dumb for worrying. they called back...and they want the two of us to meet each other...so of course, being the worry-wart that I am, I'm now gonna spend my time freaking out about what to ask :P
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just going by some of the threads posted recently on here, just FYI, neediness/desperation/stress is a huge turn off.
so whenever you two meet, have an open mind, try to act natural and confident. Go with the flow rather than coming off like you memorized a script.
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okay so now i feel dumb for worrying. they called back...and they want the two of us to meet each other...so of course, being the worry-wart that I am, I'm now gonna spend my time freaking out about what to ask :P
Just be relaxed. Don't ask too many questions initially. Let him start the talk and answer all his questions in very easy manner, adding wit and humour wherever you can. Make sure that he enjoys the time spent with you. This will make him decide in your favour. Ask questions in between. And do try to discuss your med school plans with him and get to know what he thinks about everything. Try to be observant on his take on your going to med school.