rishta "signs"?

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Re: rishta “signs”?

@Ashy2010

Ok since you are already a graduate and working, this might be what the guys’ side is looking for. They may or may not like the idea of you going to med school, its a long process and they might think that you will not be able to be fully available to meet your family responsibilities.

You seem to be good to them with your current qualification. Just one meeting means nothing and this does not mean they are interested in you or not. They just came for the first time to see you. They need to formally propose to you. If and when they formally proposes to you, you need to clarify to them about your future plans and if they agree to your plans, only then the matter will proceed.

So just wait for them to contact you. Or if they had been in contact through the third party, your parents can ask the third party to know their response and whether they would like to proceed or not.

Thank you for your advice, you’re making me feel better since I actually know wth is going on now. Yeah, I think I fit their “qualifications” now especially because they are trying to marry within their caste and it’s been hard to find a girl that fits all their other criteria + belongs in the caste + is sunni. I think the situation is just super weird and even more confusing for me, because it’s the first time that the guy’s mom came over but my family has been in contact with the third party-relative since January with a huge 2 month lull in the middle that culminated into this meeting. We’ll see…