rishta "signs"?

[Lusi]

Re: rishta “signs”?

@stoppit

My brother is also studying for his PhD (just started). He wants to get married asap, he’s not found the right person yet though. In that case, as his family, we think it would be wiser if he married someone who is working and successful so they can work together to build their life. My mum also doesn’t want them living in her house as she thinks young couples should have their own space and freedom. If he wants someone who is going to stay at home from day one, we think he should wait until he can support her and the family they might have.

Obviously, at the end of the day, it’s up to my brother what he wants and what he’s searching for. I’m just mentioning this because we’ve been introduced to girls who are doctor’s, dentist’s etc and as his family we don’t find this an issue and we wouldn’t expect any potential to give that up.

I have seen people doing Ph.Ds and supporting their families at the same time, so I am not sure what is the big deal!