Is it a red flag when a person looking for a rishta requires that you give him a picture (not unusual) but also a written birth date. Apparently this guy that is looking is well off in terms of wealth, has good looks and a height to his advantage…but is really insistent on that the age of the suggested woman be young. When he was suggested two girls (one was 24 complete with her education, and the other 19 who was still getting educated, he wanted the 19 year old to be checked out first…) He hasn’t met both of them…He himself is late twenties…
What does this reflect about him aside from personal preference? Just found the age requirement awkward? Stay away from him??
Come on its not really a 'red flag' . The guy just like younger women , whats the big deal about it ? So many women like older men , and no one points finger at them .
Is it a red flag when a person looking for a rishta requires that you give him a picture (not unusual) but also a written birth date. Apparently this guy that is looking is well off in terms of wealth, has good looks and a height to his advantage...but is really insistent on that the age of the suggested woman be young. When he was suggested two girls (one was 24 complete with her education, and the other 19 who was still getting educated, he wanted the 19 year old to be checked out first...) He hasn't met both of them...He himself is late twenties...
What does this reflect about him aside from personal preference? Just found the age requirement awkward? Stay away from him??
With these credentials he has the right to choose any 19 years old fresh flower waiting to be plucked...
Both guys and girls have different preferences when it comes to Rishta.
Many girls just want a rich guy no matter how much budha he is. Some girls want educated boys. Similarly some boys want educated girls. Some want beautiful teenagers. It's just a matter of preference. If he wants to marry a 19 year old then his choice. May be he loose a good rishta just because she was not a teenager....his loss.
I don't think it's a red flag because everyone has his/her own weird preferences.
Is it a red flag when a person looking for a rishta requires that you give him a picture (not unusual) but also a written birth date. Apparently this guy that is looking is well off in terms of wealth, has good looks and a height to his advantage...but is really insistent on that the age of the suggested woman be young. When he was suggested two girls (one was 24 complete with her education, and the other 19 who was still getting educated, he wanted the 19 year old to be checked out first...) He hasn't met both of them...He himself is late twenties...
What does this reflect about him aside from personal preference? Just found the age requirement awkward? Stay away from him??
If he's absolutely insistent on it I'd stay away.. prob future control freak.. these guys will only marry girls a certain age cos they are sure they'll be able to mould them and think the girls can't 'answer back' or give them too much hassle.. Preferring a 19yr-old who hasn't finished her education is a bit worrying.. Nothing wrong with personal preference but insisting on the girl being young is a red flag imo
10-ish year gap might have been normal in our parents' generation but nowadays I would have thought it's considered a bit much unless the guy wants the sort of relationship where rather than being partners he is the one who is going to be firmly in control..
^ she is rite. I know someone who is in mid 30s and he and his mom is looking for either a teenager or early 20s. As far as i know them, they are looking for someone whom they can control easily.
Waisay I kinda do not like men who insist to have very young gals.
Lots of difference of opinion here. My phupo's daughter got married to a guy 21 years her senior while my mother thinks even 5 yrs is too much.
Anyways, what with age 19? I know another guy who was 26 sent a rishta to a 19 yr old girl. Looks like teens are in demand. Perverted Pakistani qom lol :p
It depends on the person. If he is simply attracted to younger girls, fine. If he wants a younger girls because she will be easier to control, mold and boss around...then its not fine.
I dont like big age gaps because it also causes mental gaps. The guy might find the girl attractive but will he consider her opinion as important? Will she be an equal partner or will she be a pretty young thing he has at home? Will he listen to her or dismiss her ideas because of her age and lack of experience?
