Long time lurker first time poster here, finally had a question to ask. My mom has been arranging rishtas for me and I rejected all 3 and now my Bhabi is setting up a rishta date for me. All the girls were really really really nice but I don’t feel attraction for girls.
I’m gay.
Please don’t get into religious mumbo jumbo, I understand religion. I don’t contemplate being with another man, but I do feel attracted to men. I’m really scared about telling my ami/abu/family about my sexuality. Abu is really suspicious cuz when I was younger I used to handout exclusively with girls and was really feminine. I’m scared of how they will react and stuff uggghh .
Its not that I want to marry a guy or have a boyfriend, I don’t plan on doing something unIslamic but I can’t willingly marry and put a girl in jeopardy, I just want to be honest.
but I don’t feel attraction for girls.
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