Rishta Issue

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Rishta Issue

@funky_nails

I do not expect a mil to b great but in a arranged rishta i do expect some decensy.. Or am i totally crazy?

Well i don’t see why the mil should be indecent to you even if it was not arranged. If she has any issues with the rishta she should def share them with her son but showing disrespect to the girl is definately not the way to go about it.

Anways, you said you didn’t discuss/complain about the “redflags” with the guy but maybe he got a feeling out of you when you perhaps didn’t show enthusiasm for what he said? U know what i mean. Khair, now that you know all that about him and his behavior towards you is not right either so you might as well not waste any more time on this rishta.

@Hulahoop_Queen

LOL, you got to be kidding me when you say no sane guy would take such behaviour! OP is actually right imo. If someone initiates a proposal, then they should not let the girl or her family hanging. That is just disrespectful. It’s his behaviour that’s problematic. When will people understand that if you CANNOT GIVE CLEAR ANSWERS, then why the heck are you even getting married. You are still a freakin kid and immature.

I never said he should keep the girl & her family waiting! All i said was that maybe OP showed her discomfort at his closeness with his family hence he has decided to react this way. And if this really was the case like i am assuming, he still should have been wise enough to pick the phone and let the girl know about it and end the story.