Re: Rishta Inquiry/ Investigation
Its not that I do not see it acceptable or not.. I just thought it might be the common way to doing the investigation by desi people (I might be wrong). From my experience, proposals from Pakistan want us to call them over and get them established and settled somewhere abroad… and what if I (along with many girls out there) have hesitation in getting married and settled in Pakistan… Many guys in UAE prefer to marry in Pakistan and bring wives from there (heard many stories where guys after looking for girms in UAE for 3-4 years went to Pakistan, marry there and bring wives from there)… So this leaves the choice limited.. Am yes I am representing girls in UAE where majority of my friends and their families have same views and problems.
Majority of the proposals are from USA, Canada and these families want to marry their sons in countries like UAE… And we see a lot of marriages done with guys living in USA and Canada and the guys are shareef.. Its just that cross checking makes our parents a bit easy and relaxed and there is no wrong is having satisfaction…