hey. i dont share my persoanl life here often but after reading ur thread i feel i shud.
I went thru almost the same thing. Had everything planned, everything but thankfully we hadnt gone to pakistan yet. exactly 2 months (urs is 2 weeks) before the wedding it got all messed up. i was heartbroken just like u r n i still feel to this day tat if we had kept our situation jsut to ourselves it may not have been as bad. But i dont blame my relatives. I just hope that it doesnt stay painful for anyone nymroe (neither for me, or him or our families).
I wish u all the best. feel free to pm me if u need a friend who would udnerstand.