Re: Rishta for SIL
hey Aashi, some people think that they are mother theresia and bud in to get attention.
Re: Rishta for SIL
Chameli, fikar not.
If it helps any, I am *available *for consideration. :D Please PM me her picture.
And aashi, would you consider shutting up?
Re: Rishta for SIL
I think I didnt put things correct or maybe u just concluded that things are just extremely one sided and that a bhabi is either a billi type of hypocrite person or
Well the fact is that when u get married and have to accept ppl as family who are not always nice to you then u need to find a balance between how to be a good family member and how to keep ur distance at the same time.
In this case I do feel sorry for her loneliness and I do want her to be happy. However I think that if I did not feel a responsibility towards my hubby I would not feel inclined to participate in her ristha process so that I feel disappointed.
Anyhows, no need to explain it to you if you are not married and don’t know how it really looks like out there where you cant just be direct and say ‘sorry, cant help ya. Go find a rishta yourself. Though I feel sorry for ya’- one day when u will be in such a situation you will probably feel more emphaty for others in same situation.
But thanks for the advice anyways.
Have a nice day
Well obviously things for us are one-sided - We all only know your view after all. But like I said, I made the conclusions out of ur posts and if I'm wrong, then apparantly you are not being that clear urself. It has nothing to do with whether you are the bhabhi or the nand in this case. It could as well have been the other way around..
And I do get what you mean - but still there are some things u need to reflect on. However since you only seem to want the "i feel so sorry for you" replies, I think I'll go out now hehe .. have a good day :)