Re: Rishta for SIL
I actually just realized that the reason that I feel a responsibilty towards SIL despite her cold and rude behavoiur is my hubby's expectations to me being a good person. and on top of that I try to be a super human by trying to forgive SIL for her past rudeness and expect that she behaves with me and hubby will think that I am super wife....
I guess I m just fooling myself
I feel like that - oh Chameli, i have been through similar things so many times. But you know what, dont bother being so close with them. Ok, act nice infront of your hubby but if she is being like that - lift na do unko. Just concentrate on your life - these people are like that. Its only gonna make you feel worse. Now i have realised that if i give them a lot of attention and i dont get appreciated, i just dont care. We havent got time for their krap. You have your own life to worry about. Hope it works out for you Inshallah. Just concentrate yourself on your hubby and your own lives.