Rishta:confused about where i stand?

[NomiCA]

Re: Rishta:confused about where i stand?

@inspiron

1. my parents said not to even respond to him if he contacts me. 2. my dad will text him on saturday, im scared this guy will think oh **** they want as to get married ASAP without even getting to know eachother, so in a way i want to contact him first and be look just put my parents out their misery and say your fam liked me so we can get to know eachother with their blessing this does not mean we are bound for life.

1. Well may be your parents don’t know the frequency of contact you have had with him for past few weeks…but the point is still there…you just do the hello hi and plain talk…keep it simple.

2. you don’t know what the guy is thinking…and thats why you are all freaked out…you just assumed he will think that or take it negatively or anything…and based on this assumption you want to have a ‘talk’…which might make him edgy even more…

so the getting to know or not..that depends on whether the other party even accepts it in the first place…so you don’t need to jump to conclusions about what he might be thinking and what his response might be if ur dad says so and so…

@inspiron

im still tempted to tell him myself as Zareen suggested!

Its this temptation which would make you tell him things…and may cause you to say unnecessary things…so..just chill…