Re: Rishta:confused about where i stand?
I know there is always this temptation… many of Guppans here try to stop you from asking him directly… but I think the way he can communicate with you frankly and honestly, he cannot communicate with your dad coz of the friendliness you both have developed… So you can try communicating with him directlty… and at least inform him well in advance that your dad might be contacting him anytime soon so that he thinks about his repsonse well in time and do not mess up with communication with ur dad… Loads of duas for you… Hope things work well for you… We girls are stuck up in such rishta related situations 
and all of us are going through some sort of drama