Rishta:confused about where i stand?

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Re: Rishta:confused about where i stand?

@NomiCA

NO…if he contacts you…you just talk along…don’t ‘attempt’ anything…the period of time is critical…and the likelihood of messing things up is quite high…the more you talk…more chances of the ‘talk’ being misconstrued for other things…your parents aren’t stupid (contrary to what many here will try to suggest to you)…

Yes this all make sense to me. I agree i dont want to have any sort of ‘The talk’ with him and i understand time is crucial however two issues pop into my mind.

1. my parents said not to even respond to him if he contacts me.

2. my dad will text him on saturday, im scared this guy will think oh **** they want as to get married ASAP without even getting to know eachother, so in a way i want to contact him first and be look just put my parents out their misery and say your fam liked me so we can get to know eachother with their blessing this does not mean we are bound for life.