Re: Rishta:confused about where i stand?
Update:
So i actually went against Sahars and Nomis advice…now this wasnt out of disrespect for their advice because im pretty certain they are speaking from wise experience i really appreciated it and I still value any advice i get from them (and others)
When talking to him i started to get a feeling that he had actually sort of forgotten that he needed to call my parents…i know this sounds really weird but he was talking really happily and comfortably to me and asked how my parents were…so i took the risk and i said it…this is what i said…
‘my parents are doing well thanks, im sorry to be a nag but they are getting a little anxious that you didnt like me or our family at all, i dont think this is the case so if you could just let my dad know when you get a few free minutes?’
and he was extremely apologetic and said hes been so drowned with work he lost track of time and lots of things have recently slipped his mind. I gave him the benefit of the doubt…but thought it was a bit weird…
but he did call dad today
BUTTTTTTTTTT:- im going to try and keep my guard up until he does invite us over.
Also my parents are being alot more overprotective than i thought they would…understandably maybe, they have said dont get too attached until we meet his mother.
Inspiron u must be feeling relaxed and satisfied and at least some of ur confusion is over… But still do not get more attached… Hope for the best but be prepared for the worst…