Rise in Divorce rates

[uzair1]

Re: Rise in Divorce rates

@Deeba1234

Firstly, how do you know what they would and wouldn’t put up with? All your ‘opinions’ on women and relationships seem to be a mixture of tired old cliches of what you want to believe (inlcuding the rubbish about the biological clock ticking.. MOST women marry FAR BEFORE that and that’s reality.. not your opinion masquerading as fact).. Can never see much concrete in your posts.. Just the same ‘women want this’, ‘women want that’ as tho you’re some sort of authority on relationships

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I cannot give you a number but a significant percentage of women, throughout the world, marry men they aren’t really sexually attracted to. Women compromise a lot more on the sexual desirability of their partner when settling down. On average, sexual attraction is lower on the priority lists of women when considering marriage, than it is for men.

*“I am not accusing him of a lack of faith or of moral and marital virtues: but I am afraid that I myself will fall into infidelity and blasphemy if I have to spend another minute with him. I turned up the tent-skirting and my eye fell on my husband in the middle of a crowd of other men. He looked so ugly, a black-avised, dwarfish runt, and I hated him, and I can’t go on. …!”
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Regarding the Hadith, my point was that the Thabit Ibn Qays dude didnt become a short, dark, ugly runt overnight. He must’ve been that way when she married him. So yes, she married someone she wasn’t attracted to rather than her attraction fading away. (Dont have the privilege to post link here unlike you, partyboy and this other broad take no time to ban me)

Secondly, I’m NOT twisting that hadith.. The woman DOES have the right to divorce if she doesn’t find her husband attractive and the bond is no longer there,

Not debating that.

…regardless of whether she did or didn’t at the beginning

Thats messed up on part of the women. Women should marry men they really want to stchupp and leave the others the heck alone.