I am sure you’re right to a certain degree but I don’t think its solely the women that are causing issues here. You cannot hope to unlock a door with the wrong key no matter how hard you try. Very simplified example but you get the point.
I don’t know what education is supposed to do for us if at the end of the day, people still want to place all the blame on a woman’s shoulders. Its women who don’t want to compromise, make a marriage work, raise their families, etc etc etc?