men are delicate, intricate and self-preserving creatures.
they do not know, often, as to what is it that they are looking for.
so, here are some of the rights as a woman, that i feel men should have the access to.
right to self respect and dignity
right to being self-assured
right of being honest
right to truthfulness
right to open mindedness
right to personal space
right to commitment
right to choice
right to express ( reasonable limits) personal emotions of care
right of following through with something promised
right to responsibility towards other people to not hurt their feelings
men are delicate, intricate and self-preserving creatures.
they do not know, often, as to what is it that they are looking for.
so, here are some of the rights as a woman, that i feel men should have the access to.
right to self respect and dignity
right to being self-assured
right of being honest
right to truthfulness
right to open mindedness
right to personal space
right to commitment
right to choice
right to express ( reasonable limits) personal emotions of care
right of following through with something promised
right to responsibility towards other people to not hurt their feelings
right to being honest to their own selves
Arent almost all of these rights equally important 4 women as well???
men are delicate, .....................
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any thoughts?
dushwari
Dush! Almost of the above are not rights but are expectations of the others.
We can dissect a few above and will find that they can be contrary to each other.
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right to responsibility towards other people to not hurt their feelings
right of being honest
right to truthfulness
right to being honest to their own selves
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Is it a right? Being truthful (aka blunt) and hurting go hand in hand most of the times.
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right to open mindedness
right to personal space
right to commitment
right to choice
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Is this a right? One is open-minded or narrow-minded. It is a state of mind. And what is open-minded? Open-mindedness of one may start to encroach on the commitment, choice, personal space of the other.
I disagree to this list. In a relationship, if you have reached a point where you are talking about rights then there is already something wrong and definition of rights will not prevent the relationship to deteriorate further. If you go through the list, you should see that there are many where easily both sides in a relationship may consider as right. In case of disagreement whose right is more important? For a relationship to survive, one has to give up his/her rights from time to time to accommodate the other.
witch dr, you are diabolical indeed, what are you smoking?
stick to the topic.
your point is true - being straight on the face is and does fal under being truthful.
it would be a nice thing to realize though that - holding 'the blunt truth', until later, is a horrible thing to do.
esp in a relationship, from which a man wantd to get out sheepishly.
witch dr, you are diabolical indeed, what are you smoking?
stick to the topic.
your point is true - being straight on the face is and does fal under being truthful.
it would be a nice thing to realize though that - holding 'the blunt truth', until later, is a horrible thing to do.
esp in a relationship, from which a man wantd to get out sheepishly.
they do do have a write to write, yes. but they cannot practice it since they do not have something constructive to write.
if they tried, it will be something to see.
men r just flesh and blood, it would be wonderful to have all the things that you have pointed out that we are lacking er don't have capability of doing....o if everybody was like women.
No matter what they say or do, CAN be used against him in the court of house. 
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