Re: rights of men
Women....ohh lord....they gonna make up rights for men and then they gonna disagree with their own made up rights...... tsk tsk.....
Re: rights of men
any thoughts?
dushwari
ummm im kinda lost here dushwari..
do u mean these are the mens' rights which are ALLOWEd / should be ALLOWed to men from their female counterparts...??
they kinda sound like theyve been super-imposed on these gentlemen... like we're holding a gun to their heads n tellin them yoo0! uve these to choose from.. take ur pick, NOW!
shouldn't all of us men/women/n the other swing hav the liberty of picking/ acknowledging our rights to our own free will..?
Re: rights of men
no, men are entitled to living in their fears as well.
men must always stay confused and abuse to their fill, the purity of relationship
men must make simple things complex and then call them complicated and then run away
men must also feel free to take and when it comes to honorably give, they must have a right to a waiver for giving
men must show all their obedience and life time worth of affiliation to their parents, who keep them rather unhappy, yet when it is a man's time to settle down, he must remain tied up in his sacredness of all the ifs induced in him to repel regard accorded to them
men ha the right to say anything harsh and demeaning to women
men must have alternating standards
men must not know what they want - they are that much sure of themselves
men must carry on the work of their fathers - live in detachment
men must believe in their own personality to be perfect while the big holes in them need to heal but they must not let healing take place
men must feel alright when they mull over the feelings of women
men are allowed to move back into their shells of frustration and displaced revenge on the persons who only meant to sincerely be well meaning good partners
and when men cannot handle it all, they become vengeful to the wrong targets - women who with all their might, could have empowered these men, in good ways, but no, men need to have the influencibility as an opportunistic slayers of their own and others' trust and regard,
men must take pleasure in transferring their past's burden on to the people who put everything on the side and open-mindedly take the time to understand men
men can give their word and then let lose their inability as the confirmation of their own word's untruth
men must remain caged in their doubts
men must feel that there is nothing that happened to others due to them
men must feed their ego or else they wont be men!
Re: rights of men
hi there bhenjee,
i mean that they must think for themsleves and have personal self respect to live with this deceiving and defeating mentality, that they should always be in denial of their true feelings.
there is no recourse for such men unless they willingly begin to trust others.
they are so vested in their fears.
exactly, free will to do the noble thing is not something that they can do due to being so englufed in their world of deceit.
dushwari
ummm im kinda lost here dushwari.. do u mean these are the mens' rights which are ALLOWEd / should be ALLOWed to men from their female counterparts...??
they kinda sound like theyve been super-imposed on these gentlemen... like we're holding a gun to their heads n tellin them yoo0! uve these to choose from.. take ur pick, NOW!
shouldn't all of us men/women/n the other swing hav the liberty of picking/ acknowledging our rights to our own free will..?
Re: rights of men
a pure heart means, a pure heart.
cannot be explained, can only be felt.
What do you mean by a pure heart?
Re: rights of men
Felt by self or by others?
There is no such thing as a pure heart. We are all bound by our fears and desires.
Re: rights of men
^ fears and desires must not eat away at the happiness of anyone.
Re: rights of men
men are delicate, intricate and self-preserving creatures. they do not know, often, as to what is it that they are looking for. so, here are some of the rights as a woman, that i feel men should have the access to.
right to self respect and dignity
right to being self-assured
right of being honest
right to truthfulness
right to open mindedness
right to personal space
right to commitment
right to choice
right to express ( reasonable limits) personal emotions of care
right of following through with something promised
right to responsibility towards other people to not hurt their feelings
right to being honest to their own selves
any thoughts?
dushwari
Dushwari, it is so kind of you to recognize that men do deserve some rights. Here I was wondering if anyone will ever pay attention to our plight...
Re: rights of men
^ i am not sure, whether you are being sarcastic or able to understand why it is said what is said here. the only motive is to make this certain that men are able to recognize singularity of their heart and mind.
best,
dushwari