Re: Right age gap for marriage?
Lalas, your mom seems to really want some tight control over her bahu, ey? And lemme guess. Like a typical Pakistani guy, you're going to go haan haan along with your mom and then make some girl's life miserable by not allowing to, oh GOD FORBID, develop her own personality, so GOD FORBID, when your mom is wrong, she GOD FORBID, put your mom in place.
Oh typical Pakistani family matters.
I agree, why mold her according to your family wishes.
she is a human with her own personality.. don't try to mold her with stick or exploiting her innocence, just let her do that by her own if she wants...
However, before getting into relationship let her know what is unacceptable for u and ask her the same, if all good fine otherwise whose next :)
5-7 years older guy is a best bet!