Re: Rich Doctor Sugar Mama
Why should a girl be seen as ugly? Maybe they are unconventionally beautiful. All girls are beautiful in their own way and as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is “ugly” for one person is beauty for another. What i consider good looking in a female may not be seen the same as another. I did say all Pakistani women so i wouldn’t find any automatically not good looking. I don’t understand why other girls would feel wrong if Pakistani girls are being praised. Many Indian girls have said in a mixed gathering that Pakistani girls are better looking and there is nothing wrong with that. Its a subjective opinion. I don’t see how it would be a negative for me if a Pakistani girl is praised. I would feel happy for them.
No, she shouldnt reject a guy on looks or job status. She should look for someone who is caring, understand and someone who has inner compatibility.
1.) I haven’t done a thesis on it but Insha’Allah ek din karungi. Maybe i will write a book. It will be called " Modern Pakistani Khawateen: Aurat ya Apsara." I will let you do a review of it and you can see if you are convinced. Right now its based on anecdotal evidence and net based articles i have been reading in my leisure time since ive been on gs as a way to help my comments on life1 forum.
2.) Well they shouldn’t downgrade if they find someone who meets their criteria but the thing is how many people do they find that actually meet their criteria. How many guys put priority on some things like looks over things like religiosity of the wife? Then guys here also complain that it didnt work out because she didn’t understand me or she married someone else. Guys have problems but they talk about it more on chat rather than air it on public forum. Women are more about talking it out and being collaborative. Pakistani guys also have a larger acceptable pool to date from as they can date all races whereas Pakistani females, like desi girls, may face some restriction from families. Even if the family agrees they feel they should date within the community to make their parents happier. Some make their criteria so specific it is hard to find someone.