Rich Doctor Sugar Mama

[delhi2lahorekarachi]

Re: Rich Doctor Sugar Mama

@ehl-e-chamman

did you read the original post in this thread?
pcg in this thread was referring to a trend she seems to have noted, where girls are “bagging” male docs with potential from pk and then dump them if they become less ambitious or unwilling to relocate.

my response had been to point out that each woman has the right to make the right decision for herself/her situation and that most people in the rishta process (male and female) will weight factors such as education, location, money in their decision.

what does your answer have to do with the original post?
not only is our response off topic , you’ve also misread the situation you outlined. in that case … its an already married woman who has chosen to go to for breast implants because perhaps she feels the pressure to maintain her looks. you are making assumptions about why she feels that pressure. I read no where that her husband requested it or that he judges her on her looks …
male docs and female docs can appreciate or not whatever the heck they want not what they should … its their choice! that was the whole point.

I guess i did misread it. Sorry about that. And if this response goes into off topic territory i will accept my fate of infarctions.

I just felt bad for that woman who felt pressured to get a breast implant especially from a doctor husband. It’s not a desi thing lots of white women get pressured too but if she was made to feel accepted for who she is and if her husband assured her she may nt feel insecure. I guess in return she gets the privilege of marrying a doctor so it might be a fair exchange for her.
I would think a doctor husband or wife would value personality/someone intellectual for a life partner. But i can be completely wrong and everyone is entitled to choose someone for whatever reasons. I was thinking if it can be seen as a social status/prestige thing for women to have doctor husbands why can’t guys see it as a prestige/positive thing to marry a female doc? I think maybe that is the point PCG wants to make.

I replied on that thread and supported the OP’s decision to go abroad for a husband as they had different goals now. I don’t think she chose him because he was just a doc maybe he had other personality features she liked.

I think both guys and girls, docs or not, are superficial in different ways. While guys choose looks, girls chose reputation. How many Pakistani female docs would marry male Pakistani nurses no matter how accomidating and understanding they were? Do you know any who would?