I have this friend he is very active and has an amazing physique, he is in the trades by profession and makes a good living. He is having a real hard time finding a Pakistani girl rishtas, most of the girls that he is interested in end up marrying some wealthy doctor or engineer, who are mostly repulsive looking and devoid of any personality, with bad attitude to top it off. He told me about this girl that married a doctor 15 yrs her older and had man boobs (moobs). Why don’t thee guy ever go to the gym.
He is really popular amongst the western girls and has always been pursued by very good looking gori girls, I am a bit perplexed by this, how come he is so sought after here but not so popular amongst the Pakistani girls. He is a real Gem of a guy at heart also and would give the shirt off his back to help a friend. He is starting to get really dejected and will soon end up with a gori girl. What are Pakistani girls looking for in a guy.
Is he someone you would approve of for your own sister? If not, then you know why others wouldn’t either. Some people are like open book. Everyone can see through them. It is not always a good thing!
theorist, weak theory, If I had one absolutely, I know his potential he will eventually own his own business, why would anyone say no just because he is a technician, he is an amazing person and can easily support a family, he already has a couple of properties.
Your heart will ask your brother who to fall in love with? If I had a sister she would marry with her heart not with a family rishta score card. Yes sometimes these claims of open mindedness are just a façade.
Well the doc’s moobs can only be an issue if their size is greater than…
On a serious note, do the girls reject your friend or the parents of the girls reject him due to financial issue? Is he trying this on his own only probing the girls or do both families meet and discuss the prospects and later the girl’s family backsout.
This is so sad.
When the Prophet PBUH said to marry someone for how pious they are and the last is to look for their wealth. But now people look for how wealthy a person is firstly, and the last thing they think of is their religious beliefs.
Im gonna have to say one thing though, these people do become docs and are rich, but not all but most of them have very poor hearts.
Now im not saying none of the doctors are heartless, there are still a few who are humble.
But this stupid world with stupid materials and necessities of life, makes everyone run after the money even if they may not want to.
-Family’s status (education, caste, what ur house looks like etc. God help you if you have an older unmarried sis)
-Muslim Sect (nonmuslims need not apply)
These make up the holy trinity of rishta selections.
Intrinsic virtues count for little.
Zeros following bank balance MUST > manboob cup size.
However thats not to say everyone is like this. Many many families will be eternally grateful just someone who can provide love, little luxuries and basic essentials for life.
The statements above only apply for the excessively self obsessed and petty.
It appears that your friend is not even on the same wavelength as many Pakistani girls, then why bother trying to marry one? Maybe he will be happier marrying a gori.
Also, his comments about the guy he lost the girl to speaks volumes about his character. Even if he buys many more properties, he will never be able to buy class. ( Not saying all docs have it, but that is not really relevant here ).
You from Kelowna BC?
Perhaps ur friend could import someone from back home?
Some girl from a pind would be willing to come here and get her citizenship and hopefully they can remain a couple forever.
Are we suffering from judgementalazia, read the post please, I mentioned that he will give the shirt of his back to help a friend, that is a lot more class than a rich old moober buying himself a pretty wife, classy people marry in their age bracket and physically compatible partners.
^Well, you displayed some judgmentalazia yourself. You only provided one example of a mooby marriage with a huge age disparity. Were ALL the other engineers and doctors you speak of also plagued by moobs? Were all of them also much older than their pretty wives? Is it possible that just because you and your pal find them repulsive looking, devoid of personality, with a bad attitude, that their wives had a more positive perception of them? In subjective matters, there is room for possibilities.
